We are on Youtube!

February 9, 2020February 9, 2020Leave a comment

Hey everyone, we can finally say that we have a YOUTUBE CHANNEL! That is right. We decided to open one up after numerous talks about the contents we will have, making sure not to make it burden but most importantly remembering that it should be fun for the girls.

We will have product reviews, mommy and me’s, DIY, fashion and family fun activities.

So with that being said, please make sure to head on over to Youtube (down below) and check out our first video welcoming you to our lives. We have so much content in stores for you. Make sure to hit the subscribe button so you can see our latest videos.

The 2020 Grammy Awards

January 28, 2020January 29, 2020Leave a comment

Alicia Keys

Alicia Keys in Atelier Versace – Dang, her body in this dress reminds me of a Italian statue. Wow, so beautiful. This one shoulder column dress had a high slit thigh action. I love how the silver/metal mesh looked on the stage and the detail on that shoulder was hand embroidered with large Swarovski crystals. It was divine for her entrance. She had 5 outfits for the night, including this one. Overall, this dress was my favorite one of them all. Did you know this dress took almost 600 hours to complete?

GWEN

Gwen Stefani in Dolce & Gabbana – Guys, she is in love! She took her boyfriend’s last name Shelton, literal. As to wear a strapless SHELL encrusted bell mini dress. This is too cute! Now that I know the little joke between them lets be serious now for one fashion minute. Doesn’t she look stunning? She wore it perfectly with the over the knee boots and that’s taking a risk. You may ask why? Seriously, not everyone can pull this look off. But she sure did and can I get a YEEHAW!

Camila Cabello

Camila Cabello in Atelier Versace – This was a custom blush pink bustier dress. It had beautiful detail work with the embroidered pearls that were shown on her neck, chest, waist and the wrist. There were Swarovski crystals decorated translucently within the dress. I loved the silk chiffon chemisier that was layered over, it was perfect. Now the performance, the song she sang was “First Man” it brought tears to my eyes. The way she sang to her father that was at the front row was felt through all my bones. It was beautifully written and all my emotions were everywhere. You must hear it if you haven’t yet.

Demi Lovato

Demi Lovato in Christian Siriano – One word, breathtaking. Welcome back. She looks angelic in this white sparkle sequins gown. I could not look a way because it was well tailored. It had blazer like elements on the bodice but kept it her style with a diamond encrusted corset. We are listening Demi and you have our attention.

ARIANA GRANDE

Ariana Grande in Givenchy Haute Couture – I adore this strapless emerald ball gown on her. The over sized earrings and the matching colored gloves made the outfit come to life. It reminded me of vintage 1960’s style. I love that she kept her high ombre blonde pony tail and her makeup neutral which was the best choice. This was the last look of her night because she had a total of 5 changes.

Danielle Jonas

Danielle Jonas in J’Aton Couture – Can I please get this dress in my closet? How stunning is this grey embellished – floor length strapless gown? The thigh high slit was the perfect detail on the classic look.

JANINA GAVANKAR

Janina Gavankar in Romona Keveza – She wore a red dress to the red carpet and it was amazing. She reminds me of a bond girl, if she hasn’t played one she should. This one sleeve red chiffon gown dress was effortlessly elegant. I like how it had an asymmetrical design and the detail of a wrap style is what caught my attention because it included a knee high slit. My eyes were drawn from left to right and all around.

Lizzo

Lizzo in White Atelier Versace with Lorraine Schwartz Necklace. Then changed to Christian Siriano for a performance of “Cuz I Love You” .

When she walked the red carpet in the white Atelier Versace my mouth dropped. She look stunning in this floor length embellished gown. I liked that I saw her in this old Hollywood glamour style. Yes, darling! The sweetheart neckline was adorn in Lorraine Schwartz necklaces. The knee high slit and the faux fur shawl were great detail for the overall look.

Onto the other outfit change, when she came out in the black embellished off the shoulder ball gown of Christian Siriano; I couldn’t contain my “YOU GO GIRL!” She looked flawless. I loved that the gown was adorn in crystals, so when the light hit her it shimmered through the TV, it was beautiful and the orchestra playing in the background it looked like a painting. It was breath taking.

SAWEETIE

Saweetie in Moschino – SEXY, SEXY AND DID I SAY SEXY?! Off the run way, this asymmetrical metallic dress hugged all the right curves.

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Screen Actors Guild Awards 2020

January 24, 2020January 29, 2020Leave a comment

The 26th SAG Awards aired on January 19, 2020. Here are my nominations of Best Dressed of the ceremony.

ZOEY

ZOEY KRAVTIZ- in Oscar de la Renta with Tiffany Co. Jewelry. This outfit reminds me of Jackie Kennedy, she wore a similar peachy dress back in the day. Yet the style and pose remind me of Audrey Hepburn. This is a different style from what I normally see Zoe wear in award shows and I am LOVING IT, hoping it remains! The petite bow at the waistline is charming and the gloves reminds me of her character in Little Big Lies. I like how the entire outfit evoked old school glamour.

JENNIFER

Jennifer Lopez- in Georges Hobeika with Harry Winston jewelry. WOW is an understatement. She wore this black satin off the shoulder column gown. When she turned around there was a floor length bow train to make a statement. To complete the look she wore a diamond necklace, drop earrings and a diamond bracelet. Guess how much is it all worth? 9 million dollars! Let me take a breath on that one. *sigh* She rocked it out!

SCARLETT

Scarlett Johansson- in Armani Prive. My oh, My! How radiant did she look?! This emerald gown at a glance looks like it was strapless but quiet the contrary, turn around it had diamond straps. I admit, when I first saw her from the back I said to myself, “What! She has tattoos?” I went to Google to zoom in another picture and to my surprise she does. She has roses and a lamb on her back. But back to this stunning ensemble, the plunging v-neck is always stunning on her and she paired it well with a bright red lip for a pop of color and did an sleek back up do.

JOEY

Joey King- in Jason Wu with Akillis Jewelry. I like this edgy lingerie look on Joey. I like that the dress left little to the imagination with sheer lining. It felt sultry yet elegant for the awards. The structured bodice hugged her body beautifully. I noticed that there were crystals/diamonds that covered translucency all over and it was divine. The wet hairstyle slick back (which I am noticing as a trend) showed off the dangled earrings.

REESE

Reese Witherspoon- in Celine and Harry Winston Jewelry. Can I say, Sleek and snatched. To my fellow Legally Blonde fans, you know I was talking about the famous quote, “Bend and Snatch” But for this look Reese, wore a column dress with a high slit that showcased leg action. I like that the strapless black satin dress had sequin embellishments all over. One detailed that was AH-MAZING (as Rachel Zoe would say) is that one crossover belt shoulder. Overall, this to me feels like a new look for her and its refreshing.

JENNIFER G

Jennifer Garner- in Dolce & Gabbana with Harry Winston Jewelry. I always view Jennifer Garner as the character in 13 going to 30, her aurora is beautiful. Like, this is a mom I would like to be friends with. I like that she went for a red garment on the grey carpet. The gown graced with a fitted bodice and a pleated flared floor length hemline skirt. This look together is sweet and simplicity at it’s finest.

CAMILA

Camila Mendes- in Ralph & Russo with Swarovski Jewelry. Camila to me has always been glamorous in my eyes because of her character in Riverdale. This look is exactly what I envision her in. She looks gorgeous with this off the shoulder gown . I love the light pink color which in pictures looks like a nude hue. The plunging neckline made this look but most of all the crystal and beaded embroidery detail on it were to die for. Not to mention the sheer cape that almost looked like it wasn’t there until she moved it around. *Sigh* Just one word, perfection.

SOPHIE

Sophie Turner- in Louis Vuitton. How gorgeous does she look?! She definitely made my jaw drop. The hot pink color makes her hair and eyes pop, I like that she kept the makeup simple. Now let’s talk about the dress. Doesn’t this remind you of Barbie with a hint of old Hollywood glamour? I love the sweetheart neckline shape of this strapless gown. I can see a bit of corset inspired on the bodice, I like how there is a belted waist and that high slit was perfect. She paired it well with silver heels.

MILLIE

Millie Bobby Brown- in Louis Vuitton I can’t believe that she is only 15 years old and she is making fashion statements like this that I absolutely approve as a mom and love. She wore a long fitted jacket that had a v-neckline adorn with a diamond necklace. The puffed up shoulders and the belted waist gave a dramatic look but clean detail. I like how the blazer extended down like a high low dress and was perfectly paired with straight leg pants. Topped with white pointed heels making the entire outfit monochromatic.

AMANDA

Amanda Brugel- in Sebastian Gunawan Watch out Martha’s in the Handmaid’s Tale, Amanda shut it down in this glamour green embroidered gown. I want this dress in my closet. I love the draped sleeves, the plunging neckline, and the hair slicked back. But most of all is the back of the dress which is actually held like a halter top. You may be asking how? It’s deceiving to the eye from the front but if you zoom to the side of the neck you can see a string across and because I stalked her IG and found the picture of the back, which I wish she would’ve turned around and took professional pictures like this for the press because I wouldn’t have known.

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25th Screen Actors Guild Awards

January 30, 2019January 31, 2019Leave a comment

On Sunday, January 27, 2019 the SAG Awards were presented.

After, looking at some of my recent fashion posts, I wanted to take a moment and change the layout on the way I was posting it. In my opinion, I personally love to talk about how the outfit comes together. Imagine, Joan Rivers on Fashion Police. “Hi, I am Ady from The Mominista.” Except here, there is no criticizing, no bad vibes or worst dressed. I am all about who wore it best!

Here are my nominations for the Best Dressed of the night.

MARGOT ROBBIE

In Chanel

She is stunning from head to toe. This semi-sheer gown made her naturally glow. Perfect match of natural makeup. With hair effortlessly done. I am LOVING it. The plunged neckline to the golden weaving was statuesque.

MANDY MOORE

In Jason Wu

I am not a fan of an all black dress. I am a colored garment girl. BUT WOW. Oh wow, Mandy was bringing it! The encrusted jewel off the shoulder neckline was the pop for me. I also like the belt detail around the waist. I am loving the hair style parted and pulled back into a low pony tail. And the thigh high slit made the dress not so formal, but slightly sexy.

LADY GAGA

In Dior Haute Couture

Channeled old school glamour with a twist. The thigh high slit showed her bodysuit that was assembled to the train. I like the feather like detail on the top. The statement piece looks like a modern day choker by Tiffany & Co. Her dark burgundy lip made the dress look sexy and flattering. Her hair was styled in a low ballerina bun but giving a classic Hollywood wave glam in the front.

RYAN MICHELLE BATHE

In Sebastian Gunawan

This mermaid dress was stunning. The embroidery work is beautifully done. The sheer over the shoulder into a collar is exquisite. The ombre feathers were a hit for me. I am loving that the dress hugged her curves in a flattering way. Hair up was the perfect style for this dress.

JULIA GARNER

In Zac Posen

Hello, Casablanca? Doesn’t she look marvelous? A young Ingrid Bergman mix with a bit of Marilyn Monroe. Yes, Darling! Her look was that of old Hollywood glam and I am loving all of it. The mermaid silhouette was covered in dotted degrade taffeta. The ombre teal effect was as lovely as the off the shoulder neckline with a gathered fold-over detail. The back not seen in this picture was cut in a V shape. The peplum waist accentuated her curves in the best way possible. The coral lip was the finishing touch to this amazing look.

LAVERNE COX

In Zac Posen

My head turned when I saw this sheath satin silhouette hit the carpet. The floor-sweeping hem was cut to the perfect length. What made the dress come life was the custom gemstone embellishment made by Marianna Harutunian on the draped open back. Originally, the dress does not come this way. I love how the dress gracefully falls from a quasi cape detail. This was divine at its finest, darling! Yas, Laverne, Yaaaaaas!

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The trends of the night were the following:

I hope you enjoyed, let me know if you would like me to give you other trends like beauty or hair. Any ideas that you may have submit on the comments below. I would love to hear from you.

-The Mominista

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10 Questions to Answer by the Age of 30

January 29, 2019Leave a comment

Hello, mommas, future mommas, soon to be mommas and if you are new to this page welcome.

Let me reintroduce myself, my name is Adysbel. How do you pronounce it? Ah-dis-bell. You can call me Ady for short. In this post, I thought it would be best to let you get to know me a little better. I’ve done a lot of reflecting lately, and it may be due to all the constant feed on my Facebook of my former classmates turning 30 this year.

I think that by the age of 30, you should be able to answer some important life questions.

Here are my 10 questions

1- What is one advice I would’ve given myself at age 23?

Take your time. Invest. Don’t spend money, save instead. Move out to your own apartment. Travel the world.

2- In what ways can I be kinder to myself?

Stop trying to be the perfect cleaning mom. I have a problem, I always am cleaning. And I become overwhelmed with a dirty room. I need to relax about having an apartment with kids clean 100% of the time. I can improve by cleaning one room at a time and be satisfied. At least something was done, right?

3- What is my definition of success?

Write down your goals. Don’t give up. Put in the work. Stay motivated. It doesn’t matter how long it takes you, crossing one completed goal off at a time is success.

4- What is one thing you are tired of hearing?

I irk, when someone says they are “tired” especially, if they don’t have kids. I used to say this all the time when I was young and until now I understand the TRUE meaning. Saying this to a mother is just plain WRONG. You do not know what tired is until you have kids. Most moms are already sleep deprived at 8 months pregnant. You may ask why, that is because you can barely breathe, let alone sleep in a comfortable position. You better ONLY be “tired” if you are in school, caring for someone or working on achieving your goals. Not just because you are “tired”.

5- Where do I see myself in 5 years?

I see myself running my own business, working on what I love and having my own schedule to focus more on family.

6- Do I care what other people think about me?

Let’s be honest, I may never stop caring but I think by my 30’s I will let it stop affecting me.

7- Should I feel guilty about cutting someone off?

I have learned from my 20’s that not all friendships are worth my time and energy. And that’s OK. Family is what’s most important. They will always be there with open arms, to help and guide.

8- Who inspires me?

After watching his Nextflix Documentary, I am Not Your Guru. I started listening to Tony Robbins. Whenever I am in doubt, feeling down, need motivation; I go for walks at the park with the girls and I put it him on, his words clear my mind.

9- What do I feel most proud of?

My girls. I think, they have taught me the meaning of life. I view what they learn through a new perspective.

10- What is my current song anthem?

High Hopes by Panic at the Disco. The lyrics speak volumes to me.

24th Annual Critics Choice Awards

January 22, 2019January 23, 2019Leave a comment

Hello,

Fellow Moministas, future Mominitas and Fashion Lovers.

On January 13, 2019 the 24^th annual Critics Choice Awards were shown on The CW. The show was hosted by Taye Diggs. Let’s be real. Until now, I watched it on DVR as I was able to get an hour to myself as the girls took their nap. Can I get a #momlife? You know what I am saying. *Insert high five*

The highlights of the night were a tie. Wait no there were TWO!

Best Actress went to BOTH:

Glen Close for The Wife

And

Lady Gaga for A Star is Born

And for television, for Best Actress in a Movie/Limited Series went to BOTH:

Amy Adams for Sharp Objects

And

Patricia Arquette for Escape at Dannemora

I thought that was very nice to present TWO awards for a category.

But let’s take a moment and let’s talk and by talk, I mean FASHION. Let’s begin my nominations for Best Dressed for the 24th Annual Critics Choice Awards:

NICOLE KIDMAN

In Armani Privé

KRISTEN BELL

In Cushnie

CHRISSY TEIGEN

In Stuart Weitzman

CONSTANCE WU

In Rodarte

REGINA KING

In Michael Kors Collection

LADY GAGA

In Calvin Klein

EMILY BLUNT

In Prada

CHARLIZE THERON

In Givenchy

POPPY DELEVINGNE

In Oscar de la Renta

GEMMA CHAN

In Jason Wu

PATRICIA CLARKSON

In Georges Chakra Couture

RHEA SEEHORN

In Rubin Singer

LAURA HARRIER

In Louis Vuitton

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The trend of the night was:

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Don’t worry about what other kids say.

January 21, 2019January 21, 2019Leave a comment

Hey Mommas, future Mommas, and soon to be Mommas.

Last week, Rob was picking up Averie from daycare. While I was at work, he called me to let me know something happened. So I panicked a little but kept it cool and asked calmly, “What happened”? He begins to tell me that, when picking up Averie from school he noticed that she looked upset in the playground area. She walked across from him at the water fountain station and began to cry. He asked her what happened?

Backstory

Early that day we got a notification on Class Dojo (If you don’t know, its an app where parents and teachers can communicate) that Averie was the only child to pass the state exam for VPK with a perfect score.

So Rob asked her one more time, “What is wrong Averie?” She now begins to cry and then ugly cry. (You know when the boogers just come out- that’s when you know whatever was bothering really affected her) She begins to tell him while taking deep breaths, “The twins… called me… a DUMB IDIOT!” Begins to cry softly.

As they get into the car, they called me. I could hear Averie weeping quietly and I asked her version of the story. It’s exactly the same. But I wanted to reassure her that I heard it from her mouth not Daddy’s. Deep down inside I was crushed while listening to her tell me the story. How did this just happened? She must’ve asked the twins how they did in their exam. Because that’s who Averie is, she likes to help and loves to learn from others and they crushed it for her. This idea was just running in my head. How do I explain to my child that what others say should not be taken to the heart.

So I calmly tell her, “Averie, sometimes kids will be mean because they do not know how to express themselves. They can be frustrated and the words they choose come out rude. They may not be thinking at that moment. And yes, words can hurt. But remember that in the end of the day, the only people that matter are…. FAMILY. We don’t see you as a dumb idiot. Your are wonderful, beautiful and smart. You are beyond your years. Don’t let her bring you down. Hold your head up! I will see you soon after I get out from work.”

As I told her those words, I tried to hold my own tears and be strong for her. Because this was my first time that I wasn’t there to help her.

When I got home, the first thing I did was to go lay in bed with her. I asked her how she was feeling and she told me better. But in the back of my mind, I knew I had to write her a little note for school as I do everyday. But this time I wanted to tell her how special she truly is to me.

At 6 AM I wrote: Don’t worry about what other kids say. You are smart, beautiful, nice and FABU-LOUS! (Inside joke: she likes to mimic Lamb Lamb from Doc Mcstuffins) Hold your head high. YOU ARE A QUEEN! And ONLY YOU wears the crown! – Love Mom *Excuse my butchering of words, 6 AM and still half asleep*

You are also wondering, does she even read this note? And the answer to that is YES. The teacher sees her reading each note everyday. She has mentioned that is the first time she sees a little girl at her age reading and hugging the note from us. I think it’s a great inspirational note half way through her day.

So with that said, nobody tells you that parenting is easy. It’s a hard job and I wish I could protect her always. But I know she will learn and grow from this experience. With tougher skin.

-The Mominista

Golden Globes 2019

January 16, 2019January 18, 2019Leave a comment

Hello,

Fellow moministas, future mominitas, and fashion lovers. Hope you are all doing well. So, a week a go was the Golden Globes.

Backstory:
Let me tell you a little funny story, my television reminds me when important events like this will air. That Sunday morning, I was in Averie and Arya’s room as usual putting TV on for them. The TV then reminded me about the Golden Globes for 8pm, I hit the DVR to record. At 12:05 am on Sunday going into Monday (details are so important, right) I decided to watch it. The girls are in their room, should be sleeping. But now that I think about it… maybe they weren’t.

Any who, I go to check the DVR. Nervous fear set in me. “Did I really record it? I had to. No worries, remain positive. It’s January. New year, new me.” This is what I said on my mind as I turned on the TV. Haha, jokes on me because guess what wasn’t on the list? THE GOLDEN GLOBES! I thought I hit record, I must’ve pressed, no, thanks. I go and check my backup, the guide. Playstation Vue, let’s me watch things from the beginning after a show has ended. “I should be fine”, I said to myself. That’s when I hit to start and it’s unavailable. Great.

So after a week of looking everywhere, asking friends if they had recorded the show to only come empty handed. I can say, I have finally watched it. And at this moment you may ask, “Ady, why didn’t you just watch the carpet, or highlights from the night to find your fashion?” Well, my fashion enthusiasts, I like to watch it all. I was rooting for Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper for, A Star is Born not to mention the entire cast that was nominated for Gianni Versace, American Crime Story and let’s not forget, Queen! I live for the fashion and awards.

Here are my picks for Best Dressed at the Golden Globes:

SANDRA OH

In Versace

EMMY ROSSUM

In Monique Lhuillier

CATHERINE ZETA-JONES

In Elie Saab

LADY GAGA

In Valentino

EMILY BLUNT

In Alexander McQueen

GEMMA CHAN

In Valentino Haute Couture

MOLLY SIMS

In Marchesa

REGINA KING

In Alberta Ferretti

TAYLOR SWIFT

In Versace

CAMILLA BELLE

In Jason Wu

GIULIANA RANCIC

In Gucci

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The trend of the night was:

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Cutest Couple were:

BRADLEY COOPER & IRINA SHAYK

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Taking it Back – Ballet, maybe later.

December 4, 2018December 4, 2018Leave a comment

I always knew that if I had a little girl I would put her in ballet class at age 3. That day came with Averie and she was excited as much as I. Maybe I was WAY more excited. I went to Walmart one day I got her the entire outfit, even though the ladies at the ballet academy told me it was not required. I on the other hand wanted Averie to have the entire experience of a ballerina.

Here is Averie trying on the attire:

Now she is showing it to her sister, Arya:

The next day it was her great debut. I was nervous, anxious, and super excited for her.

I went to wake her up and tell her that it was “Ballet day.”

She was so excited and ready for it. Her grandmother and aunt also came along to root her on.

A little side note, at this age Averie hadn’t gone to daycare full time. She was only surround by family. So this experience being around other little girls is new.

She already left my hand and met a friend. You know how mommy felt, right? All in my feelings.

What I loved about this academy was that they had a television where parents would be able to watch the little ones in class.

Averie loved it but was not used to following directions at this age. She didn’t understand “taking turns” she did at one point negotiate with another little girl during the across the floors to let her go again. Which we all laughed about because why be so serious at this age right? It’s all in good fun.

The class ended an hour later, I thought it went great. I was ready to sign her up. Until Averie came out.

Averie cried so hard. Saying that it was over, that she didn’t do well and that she hated it. “Well… that’s that then.” I said to myself.

As we left, I reassured her that she did not do bad. That we were there to learn and to have fun. That this moment should not indicate that ballet is not for her. Averie then told me, “Ballet, maybe later” would be best for now.

You best believe we got her Just Dance the next day for her to dance with me at home. I was not going to let this moment discourage her from it.

Has your little one ever felt the way Averie has? Please share in the comments below. I would love to hear from you.

-The Mominista

Taking it Back – The Girls

November 27, 2018November 27, 2018Leave a comment

As a mother, have you ever just watched your kids and just studied their facial features? Yes, it may sound creepy. But I tend to look at how they have aged, in amazement. On this particular day it was just about that. I was in love watching the girls play with blocks. Then, I took the camera and took advantage in capturing their face expressions. They have plenty, just look for yourself.

-The Mominista