Critics Choice Awards 2020

January 21, 2020January 21, 2020Leave a comment

25th Critics Choice Awards

The 25th annual of the Critics Choice Awards was aired on January 12, 2020. I have finally watched it and here are my top 4 picks of The Best Dressed.

J.LO

J.Lo in Georges Hobeika – Grace and Elegance is what J.lo brings this look to life. The champagne hue looks so well on the blue carpet. The silhouette hugged all her curves to perfection. The back of the dress had a sheer mesh and the neckline and waist were studded in jewelry, which I adored! She paired the look with Harry Winston’s chandelier drop earrings and a matching Jimmy Choo clutch.

ZENDAYA

Zendaya in Tom Ford – She brought the warrior queen to this look. I personally love the monochromatic/futuristic feel. The high neck , sleeveless and asymmetrical top is a fashion forward in my little black book of fashion. She paired it well with the maxi skirt and braided hair. The hue of fuchsia was perfect on her skin tone, I love how she accentuated the color in her eyes and nails.

ANNABELLE WALLIS

Annabelle Wallis in Moschino – I love the plunging v-neck line in the sequins dress. The shoulders were draped showing a slit of skin. As Annabelle turned around you were able to see the exposure of her back which was beautiful.

ANNE HATHAWAY

Anne Hathaway in Atelier Versace – Hello, there mama of two. This was the first time she had walked a carpet after giving birth to her 2nd child. And she looks stunning! She gave me a retro feel. What I love about this shimmery gold gown is the billowing sleeves and the plunged v-neckline that made it sexy. Correct me if I am wrong, I barely see her doing something so risky as this or could that be my mom brain failing me again? Oh well. Overall, she had a glow with her natural makeup and loose hair, which was mesmerizing.

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Golden Globe Awards 2020

January 20, 2020January 20, 2020Leave a comment

Golden Globes Best Dressed 2020

A little late but better than ever. You know, #momlife when I finally had time to watch the DVR. Here are my choices for Best Dressed from The Golden Globe Awards 2020.

Taylor Swift in Etro

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When she came on the red carpet I absolutely loved this floral over sized gown. I saw it from the back (I personally love that pose) and when she turned around and I saw the peekaboo triangle on her stomach I was floored. This is was perfect for Taylor and her style. Her jewelry was minimal and I loved how effortlessly her hair looked pushed back upward.

Scarlett Johansson in Vera Wang

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How happy did Scarlett Johansson looked on this night, am I right? She looked divine. She wore this custom frock dressed by Vera Wang. I loved the v-neck plunge line which made her look oh, so sexy and the dramatic bow train. Red is a hard color to wear especially on a red carpet but she nailed it. Her statement necklace and jewelry were from BVGLARI which paired well with the strapless dress. Am I see a trend with hair? It was slicked back into a bun and I love it!

Phoebe Walter Bridge in Ralph & Russo

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So I am not much of a suit unless you can pull it off. And phoebe did just that! She wore a two piece tweed suit and what drove my attention was the metallic thread that shined, it looked like the seamstress took their time on it. The plunged v-neck line made this outfit sexy where her hair let down made it look edgy as well. I also loved, the detailed pin on the shoulder. I was totally getting, Mick Jagger vibes. Rock On!

Renee Zellweger in Armani

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OH.M.GEE! This strapless elegant dressed made me wonder as soon as it hit the carpet, “How did they keep it wrinkle free?” haha, you should’ve seen my jaw hit the floor. It was beautifully made by Armani Prive. Such minimal dress but yet the slit that showed her toned leg made it look sexy. The diamond detail on the border of the dress were the perfect touch.

Reese Witherspoon in Roland Mouret

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Hello Glamour. This asymmetric gown was just gorgeous on Reese. I wonder as the night went how her dress was. I always love to wear white but when I do I get dirty, never fails! Overall, the slick back hair over the ears and the Tiffiani & co. jewelry made it look effortless.

Anna de Armas in Ralph & Russo

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Can I point out how Anna is channeling Audrey Hepburn? The strapless deep blue ball gown was embellished in sequins, which was perfect for the flashlights. What I loved most about this dress was the hidden pockets that you could not tell it had. Who doesn’t love pockets on a dress, right? Adorned in Tiffany jewelry with a pop of a red lip made the outfit come to life.

Zoey Deutch in Fendi

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Can you believe this is a jumpsuit and not a dress?! I repeat, this is not a dress. It got me fooled and I LOVE IT! It looks so flattering on her and the puffy sleeves don’t make this look costumey, it’s more of a statement and the way the dress is constructed is well made. She is truly a sunshine because the color scheme of yellow works well with her skin tone paired with her auburn hair and hues of blues with the jewelry was on point. The hair pulled back behind her ears make it look clean with minimal makeup and a touch a light pink lipstick. The deep plunged neck line made her titanic jewelry look by, Harry Winston look extraordinaire. Best look of the night by far!

Jeannie Mai in Elisabetta Franchi

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What caught my attention from the TV was the beaded bodice. Then I noticed it was a jumpsuit, which did not make her look shorter, not sure why I assume Jeannie is shorter than me. But hey, that’s what I imagine. The look actually made her look taller and I love that she added a red lipstick for the pop of color.

Renee Bargh in Tony Maticevski

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I liked the one- shoulder asymmetric neckline gown completed by a flowy cape from behind. The slit showed her tone leg and the belt was cinched at the waist. In the middle of the chest was a cut opening which was not too revealing. The one thing I would’ve changed is the spikes on the belt, I would’ve liked a more slicked/cleaned belt. Overall this look was perfect for the globes.

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Taking it Back: Dad turn’s 30

July 2, 2019July 6, 2019Leave a comment

For most men, turning could be terrifying. But for Rob, it was thrilling.

Truth be told, society has put a taboo on this age. You may ask, “Seriously? Why and how?” It is said that once you turn 30 it means that you are an actual adult. No more childish daydreams. Your life should be put TOGETHER! Get your shit right, don’t screw it up! You should be married, with kids, have a degree with a great job, have a house, and make that money.

WOAH, what the actual f***?! Right?

30 doesn’t have to be scary. It’s an eye opener but it’s doable. You can overcome this taboo as long as you know what to expect. Society shouldn’t have control in how you do things in your life, you can do whatever you please at whatever time you can to achieve your goals.

What I can say for Rob, is that he overcame lots of obstacles but always saw the goal at the end of the tunnel. He continues to thrive and be the best dad for Averie and Arya.

Cheers on looking back today on him turning 30.

Birthday Man Details The girls hands family dad turns 30 Candles SURPRISE

25th Screen Actors Guild Awards

January 30, 2019January 31, 2019Leave a comment

On Sunday, January 27, 2019 the SAG Awards were presented.

After, looking at some of my recent fashion posts, I wanted to take a moment and change the layout on the way I was posting it. In my opinion, I personally love to talk about how the outfit comes together. Imagine, Joan Rivers on Fashion Police. “Hi, I am Ady from The Mominista.” Except here, there is no criticizing, no bad vibes or worst dressed. I am all about who wore it best!

Here are my nominations for the Best Dressed of the night.

MARGOT ROBBIE

In Chanel

She is stunning from head to toe. This semi-sheer gown made her naturally glow. Perfect match of natural makeup. With hair effortlessly done. I am LOVING it. The plunged neckline to the golden weaving was statuesque.

MANDY MOORE

In Jason Wu

I am not a fan of an all black dress. I am a colored garment girl. BUT WOW. Oh wow, Mandy was bringing it! The encrusted jewel off the shoulder neckline was the pop for me. I also like the belt detail around the waist. I am loving the hair style parted and pulled back into a low pony tail. And the thigh high slit made the dress not so formal, but slightly sexy.

LADY GAGA

In Dior Haute Couture

Channeled old school glamour with a twist. The thigh high slit showed her bodysuit that was assembled to the train. I like the feather like detail on the top. The statement piece looks like a modern day choker by Tiffany & Co. Her dark burgundy lip made the dress look sexy and flattering. Her hair was styled in a low ballerina bun but giving a classic Hollywood wave glam in the front.

RYAN MICHELLE BATHE

In Sebastian Gunawan

This mermaid dress was stunning. The embroidery work is beautifully done. The sheer over the shoulder into a collar is exquisite. The ombre feathers were a hit for me. I am loving that the dress hugged her curves in a flattering way. Hair up was the perfect style for this dress.

JULIA GARNER

In Zac Posen

Hello, Casablanca? Doesn’t she look marvelous? A young Ingrid Bergman mix with a bit of Marilyn Monroe. Yes, Darling! Her look was that of old Hollywood glam and I am loving all of it. The mermaid silhouette was covered in dotted degrade taffeta. The ombre teal effect was as lovely as the off the shoulder neckline with a gathered fold-over detail. The back not seen in this picture was cut in a V shape. The peplum waist accentuated her curves in the best way possible. The coral lip was the finishing touch to this amazing look.

LAVERNE COX

In Zac Posen

My head turned when I saw this sheath satin silhouette hit the carpet. The floor-sweeping hem was cut to the perfect length. What made the dress come life was the custom gemstone embellishment made by Marianna Harutunian on the draped open back. Originally, the dress does not come this way. I love how the dress gracefully falls from a quasi cape detail. This was divine at its finest, darling! Yas, Laverne, Yaaaaaas!

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The trends of the night were the following:

I hope you enjoyed, let me know if you would like me to give you other trends like beauty or hair. Any ideas that you may have submit on the comments below. I would love to hear from you.

-The Mominista

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10 Questions to Answer by the Age of 30

January 29, 2019Leave a comment

Hello, mommas, future mommas, soon to be mommas and if you are new to this page welcome.

Let me reintroduce myself, my name is Adysbel. How do you pronounce it? Ah-dis-bell. You can call me Ady for short. In this post, I thought it would be best to let you get to know me a little better. I’ve done a lot of reflecting lately, and it may be due to all the constant feed on my Facebook of my former classmates turning 30 this year.

I think that by the age of 30, you should be able to answer some important life questions.

Here are my 10 questions

1- What is one advice I would’ve given myself at age 23?

Take your time. Invest. Don’t spend money, save instead. Move out to your own apartment. Travel the world.

2- In what ways can I be kinder to myself?

Stop trying to be the perfect cleaning mom. I have a problem, I always am cleaning. And I become overwhelmed with a dirty room. I need to relax about having an apartment with kids clean 100% of the time. I can improve by cleaning one room at a time and be satisfied. At least something was done, right?

3- What is my definition of success?

Write down your goals. Don’t give up. Put in the work. Stay motivated. It doesn’t matter how long it takes you, crossing one completed goal off at a time is success.

4- What is one thing you are tired of hearing?

I irk, when someone says they are “tired” especially, if they don’t have kids. I used to say this all the time when I was young and until now I understand the TRUE meaning. Saying this to a mother is just plain WRONG. You do not know what tired is until you have kids. Most moms are already sleep deprived at 8 months pregnant. You may ask why, that is because you can barely breathe, let alone sleep in a comfortable position. You better ONLY be “tired” if you are in school, caring for someone or working on achieving your goals. Not just because you are “tired”.

5- Where do I see myself in 5 years?

I see myself running my own business, working on what I love and having my own schedule to focus more on family.

6- Do I care what other people think about me?

Let’s be honest, I may never stop caring but I think by my 30’s I will let it stop affecting me.

7- Should I feel guilty about cutting someone off?

I have learned from my 20’s that not all friendships are worth my time and energy. And that’s OK. Family is what’s most important. They will always be there with open arms, to help and guide.

8- Who inspires me?

After watching his Nextflix Documentary, I am Not Your Guru. I started listening to Tony Robbins. Whenever I am in doubt, feeling down, need motivation; I go for walks at the park with the girls and I put it him on, his words clear my mind.

9- What do I feel most proud of?

My girls. I think, they have taught me the meaning of life. I view what they learn through a new perspective.

10- What is my current song anthem?

High Hopes by Panic at the Disco. The lyrics speak volumes to me.

24th Annual Critics Choice Awards

January 22, 2019January 23, 2019Leave a comment

Hello,

Fellow Moministas, future Mominitas and Fashion Lovers.

On January 13, 2019 the 24^th annual Critics Choice Awards were shown on The CW. The show was hosted by Taye Diggs. Let’s be real. Until now, I watched it on DVR as I was able to get an hour to myself as the girls took their nap. Can I get a #momlife? You know what I am saying. *Insert high five*

The highlights of the night were a tie. Wait no there were TWO!

Best Actress went to BOTH:

Glen Close for The Wife

And

Lady Gaga for A Star is Born

And for television, for Best Actress in a Movie/Limited Series went to BOTH:

Amy Adams for Sharp Objects

And

Patricia Arquette for Escape at Dannemora

I thought that was very nice to present TWO awards for a category.

But let’s take a moment and let’s talk and by talk, I mean FASHION. Let’s begin my nominations for Best Dressed for the 24th Annual Critics Choice Awards:

NICOLE KIDMAN

In Armani Privé

KRISTEN BELL

In Cushnie

CHRISSY TEIGEN

In Stuart Weitzman

CONSTANCE WU

In Rodarte

REGINA KING

In Michael Kors Collection

LADY GAGA

In Calvin Klein

EMILY BLUNT

In Prada

CHARLIZE THERON

In Givenchy

POPPY DELEVINGNE

In Oscar de la Renta

GEMMA CHAN

In Jason Wu

PATRICIA CLARKSON

In Georges Chakra Couture

RHEA SEEHORN

In Rubin Singer

LAURA HARRIER

In Louis Vuitton

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The trend of the night was:

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Don’t worry about what other kids say.

January 21, 2019January 21, 2019Leave a comment

Hey Mommas, future Mommas, and soon to be Mommas.

Last week, Rob was picking up Averie from daycare. While I was at work, he called me to let me know something happened. So I panicked a little but kept it cool and asked calmly, “What happened”? He begins to tell me that, when picking up Averie from school he noticed that she looked upset in the playground area. She walked across from him at the water fountain station and began to cry. He asked her what happened?

Backstory

Early that day we got a notification on Class Dojo (If you don’t know, its an app where parents and teachers can communicate) that Averie was the only child to pass the state exam for VPK with a perfect score.

So Rob asked her one more time, “What is wrong Averie?” She now begins to cry and then ugly cry. (You know when the boogers just come out- that’s when you know whatever was bothering really affected her) She begins to tell him while taking deep breaths, “The twins… called me… a DUMB IDIOT!” Begins to cry softly.

As they get into the car, they called me. I could hear Averie weeping quietly and I asked her version of the story. It’s exactly the same. But I wanted to reassure her that I heard it from her mouth not Daddy’s. Deep down inside I was crushed while listening to her tell me the story. How did this just happened? She must’ve asked the twins how they did in their exam. Because that’s who Averie is, she likes to help and loves to learn from others and they crushed it for her. This idea was just running in my head. How do I explain to my child that what others say should not be taken to the heart.

So I calmly tell her, “Averie, sometimes kids will be mean because they do not know how to express themselves. They can be frustrated and the words they choose come out rude. They may not be thinking at that moment. And yes, words can hurt. But remember that in the end of the day, the only people that matter are…. FAMILY. We don’t see you as a dumb idiot. Your are wonderful, beautiful and smart. You are beyond your years. Don’t let her bring you down. Hold your head up! I will see you soon after I get out from work.”

As I told her those words, I tried to hold my own tears and be strong for her. Because this was my first time that I wasn’t there to help her.

When I got home, the first thing I did was to go lay in bed with her. I asked her how she was feeling and she told me better. But in the back of my mind, I knew I had to write her a little note for school as I do everyday. But this time I wanted to tell her how special she truly is to me.

At 6 AM I wrote: Don’t worry about what other kids say. You are smart, beautiful, nice and FABU-LOUS! (Inside joke: she likes to mimic Lamb Lamb from Doc Mcstuffins) Hold your head high. YOU ARE A QUEEN! And ONLY YOU wears the crown! – Love Mom *Excuse my butchering of words, 6 AM and still half asleep*

You are also wondering, does she even read this note? And the answer to that is YES. The teacher sees her reading each note everyday. She has mentioned that is the first time she sees a little girl at her age reading and hugging the note from us. I think it’s a great inspirational note half way through her day.

So with that said, nobody tells you that parenting is easy. It’s a hard job and I wish I could protect her always. But I know she will learn and grow from this experience. With tougher skin.

-The Mominista

Golden Globes 2019

January 16, 2019January 18, 2019Leave a comment

Hello,

Fellow moministas, future mominitas, and fashion lovers. Hope you are all doing well. So, a week a go was the Golden Globes.

Backstory:
Let me tell you a little funny story, my television reminds me when important events like this will air. That Sunday morning, I was in Averie and Arya’s room as usual putting TV on for them. The TV then reminded me about the Golden Globes for 8pm, I hit the DVR to record. At 12:05 am on Sunday going into Monday (details are so important, right) I decided to watch it. The girls are in their room, should be sleeping. But now that I think about it… maybe they weren’t.

Any who, I go to check the DVR. Nervous fear set in me. “Did I really record it? I had to. No worries, remain positive. It’s January. New year, new me.” This is what I said on my mind as I turned on the TV. Haha, jokes on me because guess what wasn’t on the list? THE GOLDEN GLOBES! I thought I hit record, I must’ve pressed, no, thanks. I go and check my backup, the guide. Playstation Vue, let’s me watch things from the beginning after a show has ended. “I should be fine”, I said to myself. That’s when I hit to start and it’s unavailable. Great.

So after a week of looking everywhere, asking friends if they had recorded the show to only come empty handed. I can say, I have finally watched it. And at this moment you may ask, “Ady, why didn’t you just watch the carpet, or highlights from the night to find your fashion?” Well, my fashion enthusiasts, I like to watch it all. I was rooting for Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper for, A Star is Born not to mention the entire cast that was nominated for Gianni Versace, American Crime Story and let’s not forget, Queen! I live for the fashion and awards.

Here are my picks for Best Dressed at the Golden Globes:

SANDRA OH

In Versace

EMMY ROSSUM

In Monique Lhuillier

CATHERINE ZETA-JONES

In Elie Saab

LADY GAGA

In Valentino

EMILY BLUNT

In Alexander McQueen

GEMMA CHAN

In Valentino Haute Couture

MOLLY SIMS

In Marchesa

REGINA KING

In Alberta Ferretti

TAYLOR SWIFT

In Versace

CAMILLA BELLE

In Jason Wu

GIULIANA RANCIC

In Gucci

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The trend of the night was:

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Cutest Couple were:

BRADLEY COOPER & IRINA SHAYK

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Taking it Back – Ballet, maybe later.

December 4, 2018December 4, 2018Leave a comment

I always knew that if I had a little girl I would put her in ballet class at age 3. That day came with Averie and she was excited as much as I. Maybe I was WAY more excited. I went to Walmart one day I got her the entire outfit, even though the ladies at the ballet academy told me it was not required. I on the other hand wanted Averie to have the entire experience of a ballerina.

Here is Averie trying on the attire:

Now she is showing it to her sister, Arya:

The next day it was her great debut. I was nervous, anxious, and super excited for her.

I went to wake her up and tell her that it was “Ballet day.”

She was so excited and ready for it. Her grandmother and aunt also came along to root her on.

A little side note, at this age Averie hadn’t gone to daycare full time. She was only surround by family. So this experience being around other little girls is new.

She already left my hand and met a friend. You know how mommy felt, right? All in my feelings.

What I loved about this academy was that they had a television where parents would be able to watch the little ones in class.

Averie loved it but was not used to following directions at this age. She didn’t understand “taking turns” she did at one point negotiate with another little girl during the across the floors to let her go again. Which we all laughed about because why be so serious at this age right? It’s all in good fun.

The class ended an hour later, I thought it went great. I was ready to sign her up. Until Averie came out.

Averie cried so hard. Saying that it was over, that she didn’t do well and that she hated it. “Well… that’s that then.” I said to myself.

As we left, I reassured her that she did not do bad. That we were there to learn and to have fun. That this moment should not indicate that ballet is not for her. Averie then told me, “Ballet, maybe later” would be best for now.

You best believe we got her Just Dance the next day for her to dance with me at home. I was not going to let this moment discourage her from it.

Has your little one ever felt the way Averie has? Please share in the comments below. I would love to hear from you.

-The Mominista

Taking it Back – The Girls

November 27, 2018November 27, 2018Leave a comment

As a mother, have you ever just watched your kids and just studied their facial features? Yes, it may sound creepy. But I tend to look at how they have aged, in amazement. On this particular day it was just about that. I was in love watching the girls play with blocks. Then, I took the camera and took advantage in capturing their face expressions. They have plenty, just look for yourself.

-The Mominista